J is pretty, sweet, intelligent, kind and very attentive to me. We are very much a like in all the important and very minor ways. Our norms and folkways are the same. We both lived through 30 + years of emotional deserts. We don’t have any show stoppers to a full and loving relationship. It is almost painful to be separated. She is just amazing and I would not have found her without Matchmaking nor would she have found me.