Please put my membership on hold.  Neil and I are taking the time to get to know another. The qualities I like about Neil is that he knows how to treat lady with respect, such as open the car door, carries my purchase when we went to Pet Store.  I feel safe with him.  He cooked  a meal for me yesterday. We got comfortable after few hours of conversation that I felt it was effortless to be just who I am. My experience with matchmaker is that Carolyn understood and listened to my three main criteria so she immediately introduce Neil to me.  Thank goodness it worked out. Good job Carolyn and Thank you.