So question 1. Qualities that Cheri possesses.  For physical appearance, She is very pretty, well mannered and impeccably dressed. Mentally, she is interested and interesting. She is adept in conversation, is storied, and she can lead or follow the conversation. Attentive and and engaging, she is attractive in her manner. She knows her mind and is aggressive in her style, not a wallflower. Very social. I think she is a leader and she gets her way. I am very attracted to Cheri.
Question 2. It is my desire to put my membership on hold so Cheri and I can pursue our relationship further.