Bob was attractive, casually but cleanly dresses, and he was a liberal.  We discussed politics easily and were of the same orientation.  He is different from me, (by not politically different) and I think that is a positive in many ways.  He is pleasant, mannerly, and generous.

Since he is seeing the other two women you introduced him to, I don’t know where this will go.  I would like to be on hold for awhile while Bob and I explore our friendship and he decides what he wants to do about his other girlfriends.

Good going, Samantha.  You hit the nail on the head with this one.  A good match for me.